How Somebody does Something… is how they do Everything

Apr 4

Categories: Self-Care / Self Compassion


This is how I Started Asserting Myself

Years ago, I was attending a free-form movement class regularly and got to know a person whom I knew was a popular NLP coach in Singapore. Whenever we spoke, he would make it a point to reach out and touch me somewhere along my shoulder to arm without warning and definitely without asking.

Mar 3

Categories: Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance


Unlock the Secrets of Love: The 5 Love Languages

I’ve been working with individuals and couples around relationship and sexuality concerns and challenges for coming to 15 years now, and believe it or not, and I don’t know why I haven’t written a blog specifically about the Five Love Languages. Perhaps because it is so well-known that it seems to need little introduction, or ...

Feb 10

Categories: Relationships & Marriage


UTI is not the same as STI

Dec 4

Categories: Sexual Problems / Sex Therapy


Tina Turner: Love, Resilience, and Strength – Inspiring Quotes on ...

Tina Turner was an American singer, songwriter, and actress who left an indelible mark on the music industry. She was known for her powerful voice, electrifying performances, and iconic style. While her music career spanned over six decades, she was also a survivor of domestic abuse and a symbol of ...

Oct 15

Categories: Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance


Commentary: The Challenges of Raising Children in Today’s World

As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I often hear couples express their concerns about having children in Singapore. Raising children in today’s world can be a challenge due to the many changes in society.

Oct 7

Categories: Child Development


Navigating the Casual Dating Scene

Recently veteran actors Zoe Tay and Guo Liang discussed the dating habits of young people in Singapore. They were shocked to learn that young people are more open to dating casually and do not necessarily view marriage as a necessary step in a relationship. They also expressed concern over the lack ...

Feb 18

Categories: Relationships & Marriage


AI’s Responses to My Questions on Eros (And More!)

Artificial Intelligence (AI) is a branch of computer science that focuses on creating intelligent machines that can think and act like humans. AI systems are able to learn from their environment and use this knowledge to make decisions. AI is used in a variety of applications, such as robotics, ...

Feb 9

Categories: Relationships & Marriage


To me… this is privilege!

 Years ago, somebody I was sleeping with would go Dutch with me every single time even if it was some small amount like AU$5. I felt embarrassed that he would make the cashier go through all that trouble for AU$5.

May 9

Categories: Women's Issues


Sexual Desire Discrepancy: When The Woman Wants Sex More Than Her Man

Since the arrival of your baby, the sexual balance seems to be reversed in the bedroom. You are the one who wants more sex, and he does not seem interested. Instead, he appears to be giving all kinds of excuses – from tiredness, stress, not being in the mood, to a full work day ahead.

Dec 5

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Care / Self Compassion, Self-Love, ...


Sexuality – The Last Frontier of Being an Expressed Adult?

Mar 15

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Confidence, Self-Love, Sexual ...


Handling Scars from a Mastectomy

I am thinking about why some women embrace their scars from a mastectomy (removal of the whole breast) and others hate theirs.

Mar 14

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Confidence, Self-Love


Asian Interpretation of The 5 Love Languages

Based on bestseller The Five Love Languages, I think Asians parents should do more of the below:

Mar 13

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Care / Self Compassion, Self-Love


Blog Writer:

Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives. She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and completed her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in 2017. In practice for eight years, she is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution on the OMTimes Radio Network. She has published three books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga and From Princess to Queen. Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again.

Dr. Martha Tara Lee belongs to Underneath The Moon in Singapore