Are You Emotionally Well?

Posted on June 29, 2017

When we think about our health, emotional health and well being are just as important as our physical health. The mind and body working together determine how healthy we are. A healthy body without a healthy mind just does not “cut it” in terms of making us happy with ourselves and our lives.

While most of us know the guidelines for physical and nutritional fitness, the guidelines for emotional fitness are a lot less tangible. Considering that our emotional health actually determines our sense of happiness and well being, it certainly would be good to pay attention at least as much to our emotional fitness as we do to our eating and exercise habits.

Judith Belmont, who has 40 years of experience as a therapist, has identified the following eight features of people who are emotionally well:

1. The ability to live in the present without excessive worry about the future or rumination about the past. This present focus is called Mindfulness.

2. Having a sense of connection and interpersonal support. Those who are isolated and feel alone tend to be lonely and more unhappy than those with a strong sense of connection.

3. Those who are self-compassionate tend to be happier with themselves than those who have an active inner critic. Self-esteem based on achievement and being better than average does not ensure happiness, as it is is evaluative and judgmental. Those who are kind to themselves instead of beating themselves up for their mistakes and even failures enjoy much more peace of mind.

4. Holding onto grudges and being unforgiving will surely limit your emotional wellness. Those people who keep their life stuck in blame do not realize that forgiveness is truly a gift you give to yourself. Get bitter or get better – which do you choose?

5. Those who think rationally and have healthy thinking habits tend to be more emotionally fit. Healthy thinkers can identify their thinking errors, such as all-or-nothing reasoning, and they have faith that even if things don’t turn out well, they still can.

6. Emotionally fit individuals know that no one has power over us unless we give it to them. They are in control of their feelings and do not blame others for how they think or feel.

7. Those who have a sense of humor and are able to laugh at life’s ironies and mishaps will not be defined by bitterness and rigidity. They know that life is too serious to take themselves too seriously, and they see the lighter side of things.

8. Emotionally resilient people are grateful people. Instead of lamenting about what is missing in their lives, they appreciate what they have. They do their best, accept what can not be changed and find reasons to be grateful for it all.

Strive to be healthy in mind as well as in body because you are worth it.

Category(s):Happiness, Mindfulness, Stress Management

Source material from PsychCentral

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