Tammy Fontana, from All in the Family Counselling Centre Pte Ltd discusses how various forms of real or imagined leverage can undermine a relationship. Forms of leverage include emotional guilty, love withdrawal, silent treatment, financial dependency, social dependency, psychological dependency. She discusses this in ...
Date Posted: September 13, 2022
Categories: Abuse / Abuse Survivor Issues, Codependency / Dependency, Cognitive ...
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Are you in a time of crisis individually or in your marriage? Have you recently suffered a great loss and you are feeling overwhelmed? Are you looking to do counselling? Are you looking to do psychotherapy? Are you looking to do marriage counselling? Are you not really sure what you are looking ...
Jun 29
Categories: Abortion, Couple Counseling, Ending a relationship issues, Family of ...
GOAre you an engineer who self describes as logical and not emotional? Is your partner frustrated by you in ability to relate to them without giving them advice to their problems? Are you frustrated that you feel misunderstood and not appreciated for helping?Are you having communication problems? Has your sex and intimacy life suffered? Ms. Fontana ...
May 12
Categories: Anger Management, Communication Disorders Problems, Couple ...
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Did you marry as Virgins? Are you struggling to develop a satisfying sex life. Has it been more difficult than you imagined?Many people spend a life time waiting to have sex. They do not go through the normal develomental stages of sexual development because they were not allowed to think about it ...
Apr 21
Categories: Adoption / Reunion Issues, Couple Counseling, Marital Counseling, ...
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Are you a woman who finds sex very painful? Have you been diagnosed with vaginismus? Do you have fear about having penetrative sex? Have you been unable to consummate your marriage and now want to have children? Is your vaginismus and your inability to have sex causing big conflict and disconnect ...
Nov 15
Categories: Anxiety, Emptiness, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Relationships ...
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Is your sex-lacking? Has your sex life stopped? Maybe you are the one always asking and getting turned down? Maybe you are the one that doesn't want the sex and don't feel you can be honest to yourself or your partner about why you don't want sex.When it comes to couples trying to ...
Sep 3
Categories: Adult psychological development, Anger Management, Codependency / ...
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Arranged marriages are still very common in a large part of the world and make a significant portion of my therapy practice. I have the privilege to help these couples improve the quality of their relationships. I’ve written two other articles on sex in arranged marriages. Please visit ...
Jan 5
Categories: Family Problems, Infidelity, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...
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Working with a wide range of clients from different cultures and religions is a great privilege and honor that I get to experience in my profession. In a previous article on arranged marriage, I discussed one of the common early stages of how being in an arranged marriage can complicate the sex and ...
Jan 5
Categories: Family Problems, Infidelity, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...
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I have the privilege and honor to work with a wide range of clients from different cultures and religions. This is a great honor to be let into the lives of these individuals couples and help them to grow and improve the quality of their lives and relationships. One of the specific type of ...
Jan 5
Categories: Family Problems, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Sexual Problems / ...
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Surprising that someone would apologize for not orgasming during sex. Yet , this is surprisingly a common apology I’ve heard given by a person to their partner in a long-term relationship after they have sex. Unfortunately, usually for complex reasons, one person feels a sense of ...
Jun 13
Categories: Couple Counseling, Family Problems, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...
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How amazing is it to find someone you love, sexually desired and is fun and amazing. It is one the best experiences people have and they celebrate it through marriage. As result of this deep love there comes a desire to create a family and have a baby. A baby is an expression of your love and the ...
Jun 13
Categories: Couple Counseling, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Parenting, Post ...
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Why does anyone look at porn?Why does anyone look at porn?For tens of millions of American men and women, there’s only one answer: To get more sexually excited. The goal of getting excited, of course, is to enhance the process by which people eventually get not-excited—also called ...
Oct 11
Categories: Couple Counseling, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Sexual Problems ...
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A large part of my practice is dealing with couples in which the man doesn't want to have sex with his wife. This seems to break all sterotypes and myths about men and sex. But quite often men find they do want to have sex with their wife or partner.The myth that men want sex all the time and ...
Sep 1
Categories: Couple Counseling, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Relationships ...
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It seems when a couple’s sex life is starting to become less satisfying and amazing, many people focus on the DOING aspect of sex. At last check, Amazon is selling almost 14,000 different books that describe all the ways to DO sex. That’s a lot of ways to do sex! I seriously wonder how ...
Dec 15
Categories: Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Relationships & Marriage, ...
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Everyone wants an amazing sex life. Many couples start out their relationship with a satisfying sex life. However, if the couple continues to stay together and increase the complexity of their relationship via careers, financial obligations, children, aging parents and their own personal health ...
Aug 23
Categories: Couple Counseling, Family Problems, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...
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For most couples, monogamy and sexual fidelity are an assumed part of their relationship contract. However, the extent of this assumed contract discussion is essentially:“We are not going to sleep with other people…right? … Yeah”Then most people leave it at that and ...
Aug 10
Categories: Couple Counseling, Infidelity, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...
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Ms. Fontana is a relationship counsellor specializing in helping people with their relationships whether it is dating, marriage, parenting or with their extended family. Her clients call her approach practical and found solutions to their problems. Ms. Fontana has obtained her Master Degree in Mental Health counselling from the United States and is a USA Nationally Certified Counsellor. She is also a Certified Choice Theory Reality Therapist and is USA trained Sex Therapist.
Tammy M. Fontana, MS NCC CTRT Sex Therapist USA belongs to All in the Family Counselling Centre, PTE LTD in Singapore
