I'M NO LONGER ATTRACTED TO MY SPOUSE

Are you in a marriage in which you no longer feel attracted to your spouse? Do you feel confused and worried about this? Do you have children with this person and don't want to end the marriage, but no longer feel like having sex and this makes you feel sad and distressed? Does your partner ...

Dec 4

Categories: Codependency / Dependency, Communication Disorders Problems, Complex ...

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Recession proof your relationship

Are you getting worried about the impending recession that all the world’s governments keep talking about? Do you and your partner fight about money on a reoccurring basis? Is your relationship a bit unstable and you are not sure how it would survive if either of you lost your job? Can your ...

Oct 8

Categories: Aggression & Violence, Aging & Geriatric Issues, Couple ...

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Love Making to Baby Making, Where has the pleasure gone?

Are you a couple who is transitioning to family planning and thinking about starting a family? Are you a couple who once enjoyed sex and love making only to now find it difficult and anxiety filled as you start to try and have a baby? In the process of making a baby, has sex become something about ...

Oct 8

Categories: Blended Family Issues, Child Development, Couple Counseling, Marital ...

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MOST DEADLY THING RUINING YOUR RELATIONSHIP...

Is your relationship suffering? Are you often having fights that escalate from nothing? Are you confused as to why you and your spouse are not having sex? Are you frustrated at the distance and misunderstanding that seems to occur often in your relationship? Perhaps, your relationship is suffering ...

Sep 5

Categories: Adult psychological development, Anger Management, Codependency / ...

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Is Low Sexual Desire Real?

Do you and your spouse have difficulties having sex? Are you guys having fights or conflicts because you keep saying that you don't have the same libido? Are you the self-described low desire person in your relationship? Have you been doing research on low desiring and wondering how to fix it? ...

Jul 7

Categories: Couple Counseling, Ending a relationship issues, Family Problems, ...

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PEOPLE PLEASER WITH RELATIONSHIP ISSUES

Are you a self-described people pleaser? Are you a self-described people pleaser who has difficulties in your relationships? Do you also say that conflict scares you? Are you having a lot of difficulty with communication and conflict in your relationship and feel overwhelmed and scared all the time ...

Apr 1

Categories: Addictions, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Coping with Medical ...

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THE MYTH OF LOW SEXUAL DESIRE

Do you and your spouse have difficulties having sex? Are you guys having fights or conflicts because you keep saying that you don't have the same libido? Are you the self-described low desire person in your relationship? Have you been doing research on low desiring and wondering how to fix it? ...

Feb 13

Categories: Codependency / Dependency, Emotional Intelligence, Individuation, ...

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Is Leverage in your relationship undermining it?

Tammy Fontana, from All in the Family Counselling Centre Pte Ltd discusses how various forms of real or imagined leverage can undermine a relationship. Forms of leverage include emotional guilty, love withdrawal, silent treatment, financial dependency, social dependency, psychological dependency. She discusses this in her talk. Ms Fontana Helps ...

Sep 13

Categories: Abuse / Abuse Survivor Issues, Codependency / Dependency, Cognitive ...

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HOW TO PICK YOUR THERAPY PROVIDER

Are you in a time of crisis individually or in your marriage? Have you recently suffered a great loss and you are feeling overwhelmed? Are you looking to do counselling? Are you looking to do psychotherapy? Are you looking to do marriage counselling? Are you not really sure what you are looking ...

Jun 29

Categories: Abortion, Couple Counseling, Ending a relationship issues, Family of ...

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Engineers and their Feelings: Discussing difficulties to connect to ...

Are you an engineer who self describes as logical and not emotional? Is your partner frustrated by you in ability to relate to them without giving them advice to their problems? Are you frustrated that you feel misunderstood and not appreciated for helping?Are you having communication problems? Has your sex and intimacy life suffered? Ms. Fontana ...

May 12

Categories: Anger Management, Communication Disorders Problems, Couple ...

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How to create a happy sex life when you married as virgins

Did you marry as Virgins? Are you struggling to develop a satisfying sex life. Has it been more difficult than you imagined?Many people spend a life time waiting to have sex. They do not go through the normal develomental stages of sexual development because they were not allowed to think about it ...

Apr 21

Categories: Adoption / Reunion Issues, Couple Counseling, Marital Counseling, ...

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VAGINISMUS HELP

Are you a woman who finds sex very painful? Have you been diagnosed with vaginismus? Do you have fear about having penetrative sex? Have you been unable to consummate your marriage and now want to have children? Is your vaginismus and your inability to have sex causing big conflict and disconnect ...

Nov 15

Categories: Anxiety, Emptiness, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Relationships ...

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2 Biggest Mistakes Made When Trying Revive Up a Faltering Sex Life

Is your sex-lacking? Has your sex life stopped? Maybe you are the one always asking and getting turned down? Maybe you are the one that doesn't want the sex and don't feel you can be honest to yourself or your partner about why you don't want sex.When it comes to couples trying to ...

Sep 3

Categories: Adult psychological development, Anger Management, Codependency / ...

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Arranged Sex in an Arranged Marriage Part 3

Arranged marriages are still very common in a large part of the world and make a significant portion of my therapy practice. I have the privilege to help these couples improve the quality of their relationships.  I’ve written two other articles on sex in arranged marriages. Please visit ...

Jan 5

Categories: Family Problems, Infidelity, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...

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Arranged Sex in an Arranged Marriage Part 2

Working with a wide range of clients from different cultures and religions is a great privilege and honor that I get to experience in my profession. In a previous article on arranged marriage, I discussed one of the common early stages of how being in an arranged marriage can complicate the sex and ...

Jan 5

Categories: Family Problems, Infidelity, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...

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Blog Writer:

Tammy M. Fontana, MS NCC CTRT Sex Therapist USA

Ms. Fontana is a relationship counsellor specializing in helping people with their relationships whether it is dating, marriage, parenting or with their extended family. Her clients call her approach practical and found solutions to their problems. Ms. Fontana has obtained her Master Degree in Mental Health counselling from the United States and is a USA Nationally Certified Counsellor. She is also a Certified Choice Theory Reality Therapist and is USA trained Sex Therapist.

Tammy M. Fontana, MS NCC CTRT Sex Therapist USA belongs to All in the Family Counselling Centre, PTE LTD in Singapore