Does your Partner logic away your feelings?

Some people declare they are logical not emotional. They often logic away why they shouldn't feel bad or upset. They will often claim they are not emotional but logical. They may not know how to deal with your feelings. You may find that they will tell you all the reasons why you should  not feel what you feel.Self declared logical people ...

Jun 29

Categories: Couple Counseling, Ending a relationship issues, Men's Issues, ...

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Engineers and their Feelings: Discussing difficulties to connect to ...

Are you an engineer who self describes as logical and not emotional? Is your partner frustrated by you in ability to relate to them without giving them advice to their problems? Are you frustrated that you feel misunderstood and not appreciated for helping?Are you having communication problems? Has your sex and intimacy life suffered? Ms. Fontana ...

May 12

Categories: Anger Management, Communication Disorders Problems, Couple ...

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Why Doesn't My Partner Want to Have Sex with Me?

Has your sex life diminished or stopped? Does your partner seem to avoid or turn down sex with you? Are confused and hurt by this? Are they unable to tell you why they don't want to have sex with you? People usually have good reasons for what they do. Sex is a complicated aspect of a relationship, especially if the relationship does not ...

May 3

Categories: Addictions, Couple Counseling, Divorce / Divorce Adjustment, ...

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Interview with Dr. Dunja Gorup MD neuroscientist with Tammy Fontana ...

Tammy Fontana, MS NCC CTRT speaks with Dr. Dunja Gorup MD a graduate of the university of Zagreb school of Medicine and PhD candidate of Neuroscience. She is also a former professional athlete in Boxing and now retired trains and does triathlons about the connection between physical health and mental, in particular how body health impacts ...

Apr 25

Categories: Couple Counseling, Health / Illness / Medical Issues, Health ...

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Binge Eating to Cope with Overwhelming Feelings

Are you binge eating to cope with your overwhelming feelings? Do find that you can go for periods and be okay only to find yourself overwhelmed?Do certain life task seem difficult and more manageable if you consume a lot of food to get through them?Do you feel shame and embarrassment by this activity? Do you want help but are afraid of being ...

Apr 25

Categories: Anger Management, Anxiety, Couple Counseling, Eating Disorders, Fear, ...

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Arranged Marriage: How to get a good sex life

Are you in an arranged marriage? Did you spend 6 to 12 months getting to know one another, usually on line with only a few brief meetings and now you are finding the person to be very different than you thought. Did you think that sex would be easy and just happen after marriage but that isn't ...

Apr 25

Categories: Adult psychological development, Couple Counseling, Emotional ...

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How to create a happy sex life when you married as virgins

Did you marry as Virgins? Are you struggling to develop a satisfying sex life. Has it been more difficult than you imagined?Many people spend a life time waiting to have sex. They do not go through the normal develomental stages of sexual development because they were not allowed to think about it ...

Apr 21

Categories: Adoption / Reunion Issues, Couple Counseling, Marital Counseling, ...

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Online Dating Scams

Have you been recently targeted by an online dating scam? Has somebody been telling you they love you and asked you to send them money? Have you developed a total chatting relationship with somebody through online, without ever meeting them, but are convinced that you are in love with them? Has ...

Apr 21

Categories: Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions, Couple Counseling, Ending a ...

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2 Biggest Mistakes Made When Trying Revive Up a Faltering Sex Life

Is your sex-lacking? Has your sex life stopped? Maybe you are the one always asking and getting turned down? Maybe you are the one that doesn't want the sex and don't feel you can be honest to yourself or your partner about why you don't want sex.When it comes to couples trying to ...

Sep 3

Categories: Adult psychological development, Anger Management, Codependency / ...

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Oops I didn’t orgasm, I’m sorry

Surprising that someone would apologize for not orgasming during sex. Yet , this is surprisingly a common apology I’ve heard given by a person to their partner in a long-term relationship after they have sex.  Unfortunately, usually for complex reasons, one person feels a sense of ...

Jun 13

Categories: Couple Counseling, Family Problems, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...

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Help! We’ve had a baby, but I lost the partner I married!

How amazing is it to find someone you love, sexually desired and is fun and amazing. It is one the best experiences people have and they celebrate it through marriage. As result of this deep love there comes a desire to create a family and have a baby. A baby is an expression of your love and the ...

Jun 13

Categories: Couple Counseling, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Parenting, Post ...

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Why Does Anyone Look at Porn?

Why does anyone look at porn?Why does anyone look at porn?For tens of millions of American men and women, there’s only one answer: To get more sexually excited. The goal of getting excited, of course, is to enhance the process by which people eventually get not-excited—also called ...

Oct 11

Categories: Couple Counseling, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Sexual Problems ...

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Help! My husband doesn't want sex with me!

A large part of my practice is dealing with couples in which the man doesn't want to have sex with his wife. This seems to break all sterotypes and myths about men and sex. But quite often men find they do want to have sex with their wife or partner.The myth that men want sex all the time and ...

Sep 1

Categories: Couple Counseling, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, Relationships ...

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Are you playing the BLAME-GAME to fix your unsatisfying sex life?

Everyone wants an amazing sex life. Many couples start out their relationship with a satisfying sex life. However, if the couple continues to stay together and increase the complexity of their relationship via careers, financial obligations, children, aging parents and their own personal health ...

Aug 23

Categories: Couple Counseling, Family Problems, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...

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The sex conversation all couples should have but most don't until ...

For most couples, monogamy and sexual fidelity are an assumed part of their relationship contract. However, the extent of this assumed contract discussion is essentially:“We are not going to sleep with other people…right? …  Yeah”Then most people leave it at that and ...

Aug 10

Categories: Couple Counseling, Infidelity, Marital Counseling, Men's Issues, ...

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Blog Writer:

Tammy M. Fontana, MS NCC CTRT Sex Therapist USA

Ms. Fontana is a relationship counsellor specializing in helping people with their relationships whether it is dating, marriage, parenting or with their extended family. Her clients call her approach practical and found solutions to their problems. Ms. Fontana has obtained her Master Degree in Mental Health counselling from the United States and is a USA Nationally Certified Counsellor. She is also a Certified Choice Theory Reality Therapist and is USA trained Sex Therapist.

Tammy M. Fontana, MS NCC CTRT Sex Therapist USA belongs to All in the Family Counselling Centre, PTE LTD in Singapore