Arranged Marriage: How to get a good sex life

Published on April 25, 2022

Are you in an arranged marriage? Did you spend 6 to 12 months getting to know one another, usually on line with only a few brief meetings and now you are finding the person to be very different than you thought. Did you think that sex would be easy and just happen after marriage but that isn't the case.

Has sex become a power struggle over when, how and who initiates? Do you find that there are desire differences. Do you find that your spouse is constantly rejecting you? 

Was you first experiences of sex unpleasant? Was it painful and now you are afraid? Is it completely not what you had hoped for?

Unfortunately this is a too common reality for many arranged marriage couples. They are often virgins, have very little education about sex, the emotions and what they like or boundaries. They have unrealistic ideas and beliefs about sex.

arranged marriage sex: how to do itMs Fontana in this video discusses how sex therapy and marriage therapy work hand in help to couples. She debunks ideas of blaming or forcing people to do things. Sex therapy is not about doing but about the thinking and feeling.

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Category(s):Adult psychological development, Couple Counseling, Emotional Intelligence, Individuation, Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance, Men's Issues, Relationships & Marriage, Relaxation techniques, Sexual Problems / Sex Therapy, Women's Issues

Written by:

Tammy M. Fontana, MS NCC CTRT Sex Therapist USA

Ms. Fontana is a relationship counsellor specializing in helping people with their relationships whether it is dating, marriage, parenting or with their extended family. Her clients call her approach practical and found solutions to their problems. Ms. Fontana has obtained her Master Degree in Mental Health counselling from the United States and is a USA Nationally Certified Counsellor. She is also a Certified Choice Theory Reality Therapist and is USA trained Sex Therapist.

Tammy M. Fontana, MS NCC CTRT Sex Therapist USA belongs to All in the Family Counselling Centre, PTE LTD in Singapore