Did you marry as Virgins? Are you struggling to develop a satisfying sex life. Has it been more difficult than you imagined?
Many people spend a life time waiting to have sex. They do not go through the normal develomental stages of sexual development because they were not allowed to think about it or explore during their formative years. They were told to wait. They may have gotten other negative sex messages.
Upon marriage they now had no rules or guidance but still do not feel comfortable. It can create conflict and turn something wonderful into something stressful.
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