Mental Health Tune-Up

Published on January 8, 2021

When stressed, the drive for success or chaos ensues, we might forget about our mental health.  We might be so busy striving or surviving that we aren’t in check with how we are feeling emotionally, physically or psychologically.  So how can you tell if you are out of balance?

Here are some indications that your mental health could use a tune-up:

1. Sleep

Are you able to sleep at night, or are you waking up in the middle of the night?  If your rest hasn’t been great, be curious if it is due to worry, stress, anxiety or alcohol use.

2. Energy

What are your energy levels like?  Are you waking up exhausted even after a full nights sleep?  Are you feeling fatigued more often than not?  Our energy levels can give us a good idea if we are pushing too hard and entering an exhaustion phase.

3. Exercise

How much physical activity are you doing?  Exercise helps us to focus, destress and stay physically healthy.

4. Emotions

Do you feel numb, agitated, or more teary than usual?  Do you understand what you are feeling?  Emotions give us information about how we are feeling about ourselves those around us, and other stressors in our life.

5. Conflict

Are you finding yourself in more conflicts than usual?  Are you snapping at your friends or colleagues?  When we hold our feelings in or get too tense, we can lash out at others.

6. Isolation

Are you feeling isolated or isolating yourself?  Are you avoiding your friends and family?  When we are depressed or overwhelmed, we might want to avoid others, but this can be a bad idea if we isolate ourselves for too long.

7. Pain

Are you feeling pain in your body without being physically sick?  When we lose track of our mind and body, we might feel inflammation, muscle soreness, stomach aches, chest pain and headaches.

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If you would like to set up an appointment please contact me on +852 2521 4668 or email m.borschel@mindnlife.com. I can offer both an online session via Skype or a face to face session.

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Category(s):Abortion, Abuse / Abuse Survivor Issues, Anxiety, Emotional Abuse, Grief, Loss, Bereavement, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) / Trauma / Complex PTSD, Relationships & Marriage, Social Isolation, Workplace Issues

Written by:

Dr Monica Borschel

Welcome! My passion is to help you find inner peace and emotional comfort within yourself and your relationships.

As social creatures, our relationships significantly shape our happiness, well-being, and sense of self-worth. Unfortunately, many of us have experienced relationship-related traumas, which can leave us with emotional scars that require recovery.

Attachment traumas, such as divorce, break-ups, infidelity, neglect, and abuse, can be challenging. As an expert in attachment, loss, and trauma, I have spent many years studying how attachment styles can shift with loss and trauma.

I have seen how healthy relationships can lead to secure attachment and how insecure attachment can create turmoil in our lives. I aim to guide you toward cultivating healthy relationships with yourself, your children, your co-parent, and your romantic partner.

I can help you develop new attachment strategies that will allow you to form deeper connections and bonds with those around you. And, if you have children, I can also assist you in establishing secure attachments with both parents, which can be especially helpful in cases of separation or divorce.

I am originally from Salt Lake City, Utah, where I completed my Bachelor of Science in Psychology at The University of Utah. From there, I moved to New York City, earning my Master’s in Clinical Psychology from Columbia University. I then pursued my Doctorate in Social Work and Social Administration at the University of Hong Kong. I lived and worked in Hong Kong as a practicing Clinical Psychologist from 2010-2020. I reside in California and am pursuing my Doctorate in Psychology (PsyD) at California Southern University. My training and qualifications include certifications in Brainspotting and High Conflict Coaching.

These tools, combined with my extensive knowledge and experience in the field, enable me to offer you the guidance and support you need to recover from past traumas and build healthy relationships.

My approach to therapy is empathetic, supportive, and tailored to your unique needs. Every person can grow, and thrive. I am committed to helping you achieve your goals. So, whether you are struggling with relationship issues, divorce, abuse, attachment traumas, or other challenges, I am here to help you find the peace and comfort you deserve.

Email me at info@doctormonicaborschel.com or call the MindnLife Clinic at 852 2521 4668