Susan is habitually unemployed because of frequent tardiness and absences.
What do you do with an employee who’s always late or absent?
For many years, Susan would be fired by bosses after only a short period of probation.
Our sense of values is related to time.
When we misuse or waste time, it creates unwanted compulsive psychological cycles, moods, somatics, addictions etc.
Much mischief, vandalism, and crime could be explained in terms of how time is used.
Yesterday, I was speaking to a Mom of 3 kids who went into online selling. Like Susan, she suffered from “short-time sense.”
She received many orders. As a result, she felt a need to borrow money to increase her capital.
She honestly intended to pay her creditors. But “not now.”
Her procrastination had cost her money, her credit rating, and lots of worrying over legal cases.
Healing our psychological sense of time involves developing healthy time habits.
Here are some:
1. Upholding importance of promptness;
2. Advanced planning;
3. Doing things now;
4. Not spreading your self too thin;
5. Do other things or make changes to alleviate boredom.
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Dr. Angelo Subida is a clinical psychotherapist, author, and speaker. He is author of books "Inner Healing," "Secrets Of Your Self," "Chess and Life," among others, blogs, and articles. He has appeared frequently as an expert on psychotherapy/life recovery issues on national television, radio broadcasts, print media, and webcasts, including GMA 7, TV 5, ABS CBN 2, Q-11, 700 Club, Radyo Veritas, Inquirer Radio, Smart Parenting Magazine, Business Mirror, among others, and has served as resident therapist/counselor for parents and kid-artists in the highly popular ABS-CBN 2 Voice Kids TV singing reality show. Dr. Subida is an eclectic, multidisciplinary therapist and originator of his own revolutionary high-tech, high-touch counseling plus model. His areas of specialization include parent-child therapy, clinical infidelity treatment, relationship/marital counseling, separation/divorce therapy, anger management, depression, addictions, psychotherapy-spirituality integration, and innovative chess therapy. For more of Dr. Subida, you can find him at www.drsubida.com.