Be light as a swift, not as a feather

Published on May 30, 2017

I recently heard this sentence, "Be light as a swift, not as a feather".

It's simplicity struck me for the images and meaning it elicited in my mind.

In my corporate life and now as a counsellor I have spoken to many people who feel like a falling feather or a floating leaf, inexorably moving towards a fate they often did not choose.

Remember, we were all born with wings.

We might have forgotten we have a pair.

We might have forgotten how to use them.

We might have been told that it is forbidden to use them.

We might believe that if we use them we are hurting our loved ones.

There are many reasons not to fly, some good, some bad, but when we go about life never flapping them, we suffer.

Be gracious like a swift in flight, use your wings to give direction to your life. Take rest when necessary and stop flapping, but always remember they are your decisions.

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Category(s):Happiness, Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance, Mindfulness, Self-Love

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Dr Oberdan Marianetti

Dr OM opened in Singapore 2015 to serve the local community on all their relationship and sexuality challenges.

Intrigued by the secrets of the mind, Dr Oberdan first qualified as a psychologist over 15 years ago and worked both in corporate and private settings to support individuals, couples and groups to rediscover their innate power for productivity, creativity and service.

Today, the clinic has evolved to offer a broader range of services, eventually establishing itself as a respected, reputable, and trusted place for healing. It has grown to serve a diverse clientele from over 50 countries, who present life challenges ranging from stress, anxiety and depression, to the specialised sexual and relational ones experienced in silence by many.

We welcome clients from any walk of life, and look forward to continue growing as a valuable service provider to our local and international communities.

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