Handling Scars from a Mastectomy

I am thinking about why some women embrace their scars from a mastectomy (removal of the whole breast) and others hate theirs.

Mar 14

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Confidence, Self-Love

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Asian Interpretation of The 5 Love Languages

Based on bestseller The Five Love Languages, I think Asians parents should do more of the below:

Mar 13

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Care / Self Compassion, Self-Love

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Love Even Though It Will End Anyway

When I was younger, I didn’t like endings – play time, be a movie, book, drama series (30+ episodes). I would cry at the end of TV shows because it was so good and I enjoyed it so much – why did it have to end? Later as I grew older and understood that everything had to have an ...

Mar 12

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Care / Self Compassion, Self-Love, ...

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O My Heart!

I know whatAll these can happen even as my heart remains within my body.. and not a word is spoken.

Mar 11

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Care / Self Compassion, Self-Love

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What Long-term Relationships are Really About

Many years ago, I became good friends (and still am) with an older male friend. He was very tolerate of my childish ways and I couldn’t comprehend the depth and width of his heart and patience until I met his wife.

Mar 10

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Care / Self Compassion, Self-Love

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Soulmate Relationships Aren’t All Meant to be Happily Ever AfterThis

Recalling from years ago… my marriage was on the rocks.

Mar 9

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Care / Self Compassion, Self-Love

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Have Some Standards, Pleaze!

Because of the bullying I received due to being physically unattractive when young (especially by the “cool kids”/ “in group”), I’ve grew up being wary of good-looking people and outrightly avoiding dating them altogether. One day, I told myself that I was done buying ...

Mar 8

Categories: Prejudice / Discrimination, Self-Care / Self Compassion, Self-Love

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Satire about Online Dating

Ever notice how dating app profiles state anything along the lines of:

Mar 6

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Care / Self Compassion, ...

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Better Questions, Better Answers

I’m learning something through my interactions with my Dad – not shaming or blaming, just stating/ sharing here.

Mar 5

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Love

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Overcome Your Negative Thoughts on Dating

Mar 4

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Love

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Keep Walking – One Sign of a Toxic Relationship

I started to date a new person only a few times, yet he already brought up marriage a couple of times. Recently when he brought it up again, I replied why it won’t work between us.

Mar 1

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Love

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“It’s Not You” is Likely True!

Several years ago, a guy I started to see and liked a lot called it quits saying he felt intuitively that I wasn’t the “right person” ending with “It’s not you. It’s me.”

Feb 29

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Love

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Unconditioned Love exists for the Undeserved

I’ve been doing inner work/ personal development for years by now – 19 years if you want to be more precise (since the time I was aware of what this really means).

Feb 28

Categories: Relationships & Marriage, Self-Love

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6 Regular People Share Why You Should Reclaim Your Sexual ...

Your sexuality is an innate part of who we are. So many people suffer from lack of or misinformation about sex and sexuality though, and as a result suffer in silence and often for long periods of time – not knowing where to go to seek support and who to trust.

Feb 27

Categories: Self-Care / Self Compassion, Self-Love, Sexual Problems / Sex Therapy

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Separate Who You Are vs. What You Do

I was sharing my observations from watching “Undercover Boss” on YouTube with a new friend yesterday:

Feb 20

Categories: Self-Love

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Blog Writer:

Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives. She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 10 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited. Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. F

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